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1. what’s your gender?
I identify as Genderqueer, my biological sex is Female.
2. what are your pronouns?
She/Her and They/Them
3. is your family accepting?
They don't understand, it but they do accept me.
4. what do you wish you could tell your past self?
Don't worry, you're just really horny and don't realize it.
5. what is your sexuality?
I am Demisexual, but I'm super into dudes, which makes me Demi-Heterosexual.
6. favorite color?
Purple.
7. sun gay or moon gay?
What is the difference?
8. when did you find out your sexuality?
I always knew I liked dudes, but when I was entering teenhood, I started liking dude/dude pairings, and the only people I knew at the time that liked such pairings were queer girls on the internet (most who were in relationships with other women), so I was like "am i gay???"
It wasnt until in high school, when I asked a girl in the GSA club about it, that she informed me that liking dude/dude love doesn't define your sexuality. She herself was a lesbian who liked to read and write Sherlock/Watson fan fiction, but she still preferred women in a relationship.
Also, in college, I had a few drawing classes where we had to sketch nude models, and they were mostly women, and upon drawing them I found I felt nothing for their bodies. So my desires, both sexual and sensual, are for men only, no girls allowed... Unless you're Hilary Duff. I would marry her.
9. how was your day?
Unproductive but alright.
10. do you have any gay friends?
Yep.
11. what’s your favorite hobby?
Cooking/baking.
12. who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?
Jack from Jacksfilms.
13. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?
All of them, though for a while I felt like the heterosexual flag seemed kinda ominous, like it was drained of all joyful color and appeared to be made out of scorn. But I'm changing that thought in my head by thinking of how it looks like Erik X's shirt from Creature Feature, and I love that guy, so I guess it's not that bad.
14. are you openly out?
I guess I am???
15. are you comfortable with yourself?
Gender identity has always been iffy for me. I identified as Genderfluid in my last year of high school, but after a couple of years it just didn't feel right for me. Non-Binary doesn't seem like the right identity for me, so using Genderqueer feels like a better fit for myself, since it's an umbrella of other non-binary identities. I still feel like I'm not allowed to be proud of myself for this identity, but I'm trying.
As for my sexuality, I'm normally totally cool about my attraction to dudes, as well as my Demisexuality, but it was during these last few months when I came to realize how not everyone in the LGBTQA+ community accepts straight people, as well as those in the Asexual community (which Demis are part of). I often see aphobe discourse being juggled around Tumblr, and need I mention the frequent bitter use of "het" as a negative connotation of straight people? It makes me feel very insecure, as if I am not allowed to participate in Pride Month because people like me are not welcome. Thankfully, I have friends who support me and pushed me to be more of a participant this year, and I appreciate that very much.
16. bottom or top?
idk im a virgin.
17. femme or butch?
meh
18. do you bind?
It's something I've thought about but not really considered, I don't feel compelled to do it, it's just a passing thought. Maybe I'll get myself a binder at some point, but I don't need one as of right now.
19. do you shave?
Whenever I feel like it.
20. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?
The guy behind the cash register at my local Walgreens.
21. do you have a partner (s)?
no
22. describe your partner (s)?
#21
23. have you ever dated anyone of the same sex?
no
24. anyone of another sex?
no
25. pastel gay or goth gay?
#7
26. favorite dad in dream daddies?
I still need to play that, but for now Brian is my dream daddy.
27. tell me a random fact about yourself?
Apparently I count as a POC. I have never seen myself as a person of color, nor did I consider myself "white", but I looked it up an apparently mixed race people do count as POC. I don't see it as something of major importance, the color of my skin is superficial, it's my mixed culture and heritage from both sides that I consider of value, as well as the psychology of my mental health and personality, influenced by my home and social life (or lackthereof).
28. do you own any pride flags/merch?
I have an equality button with the Gay Pride flag on it, and I recently bought myself a tank top that has colors of the Genderqueer flag on it, although it's merely coincidental and unintentional, but it works for me.
29. have you ever been to a pride parade?
No I haven't.
30. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?
Be patient with yourself, there is no hurry. You are not alone and you are valid.